Sunday, March 29, 2009

Annoyance...

Okay, ya'll know I adore you for reading and putting up with me, but can we cut out the emails telling me to get over Naughty already? I got a few today indicating, "Why are you still hung up on this?"

Um...I am aware that for you, not having to feel the feelings and everything, that maybe this is getting a little old, but hello? It is heartbreak for a reason, broken hearts don't just get a little glue and they are good as new. I am at about the 98% point here, this is amazing, since I was probably at about 68% point before I left. It was a year+ of my life, that's a lot to grieve for. I still grieve for dogs that died years ago! YEARS! I'm just sort of that type of girl, it takes me a bit.

I'll try and minimize the talk, but it might still take me a bit to get to that 2% done. That bruised ego still stands in the way...so no more from ya'll about just-get-over-it-already, and I'll try my best to say no more about it either, and suffer in silence if need be, deal? Great.

Sorry, in a bad mood. Excessive homework does that to me.

8 comments:

per.pri said...

Rae, you take as long as you need. And your friends are here to support you in that.

Glad you got home safe, we will definitely catch each other next time. ;)

xoxox

Anonymous said...

Getting over heartbreak doesn't follow a schedule. Seriously. Don't pay attention to anyone who tries to make you feel as though you're wallowing and not moving on quickly enough. It's your damn heart. Hang in there.

Riff Dog said...

Oh, come on, Rae! Just get over him already! ;)

Seriously Rae, you have to handle this at your own pace. Personally, I think being at 98% already is really far.

Maybe if you could come to California, I can see what I can do to help you forget that last 2%. ;)

Loving Annie said...

It took me 7 years to get over my college boyfriend, 5 years to get over the bf I had when I was 35 and 2 years to get over Mike when I was in my late 40's.
Some people just feel things very deeply. If you have abandonment and self-esteem issues on top of it, like I did, it's all the harder.
My empathy. ((hugs)

per.pri said...

Our situations reflect each other far too much... Hiatus was broken to write a couple of sentences...

xoxox

A. Secret said...

Oh hon-ney! Tell them all to fuck off and let me buy you a drink. Girls night out! Men, who needs 'em! Well we do, but we can find 'em while we're out ;-)
XX

Leslie said...

Don't worry, time heals all. Even broken hearts. Ignore what others say.

Naughty Girl said...

Hey babe...your blog so you get to vent, write, whine, go on and on about whatever your heart wants. so there! :)